Tonight I choose to talk about people. (Wah, very formal intro).
I'm an average person when it comes to social skills. I don't hate blending around with people, but I do feel awkward when I meet people for the first time and communicate with them. If the person is friendly and talkative, it's not that bad. I wait for people to talk to me first, and I'm not the type of person who has the guts to walk around and say hi randomly to people I meet for the first time.
I don't consider myself as a friendly person. I takes a very long time for me to get used to someone and joke around with them. Reflecting back my school life, there were like only some people who I get pretty comfortable blending around with - and these people are those who I have known for one or two years. Those who I remember as friends are those who had at least left a good memory with me by what they have done - it doesn't matter how big or small it was, what matters most are the smiles and laughter. After some time, I can get pretty talkative to some people - it just depends on the time and person.
For me, dealing with people is difficult. Sometimes different people just seem to make you feel angry intentionally. I had a bad experience a few years ago. Words did make me hurt. Over the years, when I think back, it's just nothing. One person is just so different from the others and that difference causes people to either fight or blend well. I don't really care if a person is very different from me, as long as she's nice to me.
If you ask me why am I talking about this, I have the answer. Dealing with people will be one of the greatest challenges I'll face soon. There's a probability that I'll be away from home soon - well, I'm not very certain about that but it's good to prepare a good mindset early. Leaving school life also means meeting with new people you don't even know. Honestly, I feel a bit uneasy.
To wrap everything up, here's something to share:
People may not remember exactly what you did, or what you said, but they will always remember how you made them feel.
I'm an average person when it comes to social skills. I don't hate blending around with people, but I do feel awkward when I meet people for the first time and communicate with them. If the person is friendly and talkative, it's not that bad. I wait for people to talk to me first, and I'm not the type of person who has the guts to walk around and say hi randomly to people I meet for the first time.
I don't consider myself as a friendly person. I takes a very long time for me to get used to someone and joke around with them. Reflecting back my school life, there were like only some people who I get pretty comfortable blending around with - and these people are those who I have known for one or two years. Those who I remember as friends are those who had at least left a good memory with me by what they have done - it doesn't matter how big or small it was, what matters most are the smiles and laughter. After some time, I can get pretty talkative to some people - it just depends on the time and person.
For me, dealing with people is difficult. Sometimes different people just seem to make you feel angry intentionally. I had a bad experience a few years ago. Words did make me hurt. Over the years, when I think back, it's just nothing. One person is just so different from the others and that difference causes people to either fight or blend well. I don't really care if a person is very different from me, as long as she's nice to me.
If you ask me why am I talking about this, I have the answer. Dealing with people will be one of the greatest challenges I'll face soon. There's a probability that I'll be away from home soon - well, I'm not very certain about that but it's good to prepare a good mindset early. Leaving school life also means meeting with new people you don't even know. Honestly, I feel a bit uneasy.
To wrap everything up, here's something to share:
People may not remember exactly what you did, or what you said, but they will always remember how you made them feel.
It's a great thing to make people happy.
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